Q

Could someone who is a Christian fall so far from God that they might reach a point to where they could never come back to him?
~Ms. G

A

Dear Ms. G,

In answer to your question concerning whether believers can fall so far from God that they cannot come back to the Him, I would like to draw your attention to a passage in the New Testament. “For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit, and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come, if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for themselves the Son of God, and put Him to an open shame,” Hebrew 6:4-6. Now, before you become alarmed, let me explain. This passage does say that a believer who falls away cannot again be renewed unto repentance, but it is very important to note that it is not saying that such a person cannot be restored to God!

This passage is a difficult one to understand, but the way that I see it is that it is speaking of the initial repentance that brings a man back together with Christ. There is an impulse in so many Christians to think that they need to be re-baptized or that they need to re-accept the Lord when they have backslidden and fallen away. However, this passage seems to condemn that mindset telling people that to try to re-accept Christ or be re-baptized is to "crucify again for themselves the Son of God, and put him to an open shame"(Heb 6:7). The point is that it is impossible for those who have received the Holy Spirit to re-receive him.

That is the best that I can do with a passage that is so very difficult to understand, for at a first reading it certainly seems to be saying that once a Christian falls away, he is hopelessly lost forever. However, such a reading would contradict so many other passages of Scripture which demonstrate that God is "merciful, gracious, longsuffering and abounding in goodness and truth, keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity, transgression and sin"(Exod 34:6-7), that he has "not come to call the righteous, but the sinners to repentance" (Matt 9:13).

Paul himself exhorts the Corinthian church to kick one of its members out of the Church because he was openly having an affair with his father's wife; however he insists that they do this "for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus." (I Cor 5:5). This tells us that a man who falls into grievous sin can repent and come back to the Lord. The great thing is that Paul later writes back to the Church and says that they should allow him back in and forgive him since he repented of his deed (II Cor 2:1-12). So it must be that even after we have accepted Christ, there remains yet God's mercy for us and our wicked deeds.

Anyway, I do hope that this answer has helped you as you seek to know God more.

Blessings,
Thom

 

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